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I Lived To Tell About It

Home in North Philly

The farthest back I can remember is 1963, when I was six-years-old and my family lived at 2232 N. Second Street in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. An Irish woman, Mrs. Hagherty, was frequently our babysitter. She had three Sons and three daughters. I envied her youngest son, Patrick, because it seemed to me that he always had everything he wanted. However, he was not greedy and shared his toys with us. Mrs. Hagherty’s three daughters, all in their twenties, were beautiful, and even though I was only six, I was in love with two of them. One of them was Judith, and my mother named my youngest sister, Wanda Judith, after her; the others were Virginia and Veronica. I was in love with both Virginia and Judith because they constantly showed me so much love. Every time I went to their house, they would hug and kiss me and play games with me. I remember that when I started first grade I was sick one day. My mother had left my brothers, Willie and Edwin, my sisters, Wandy, Debbie, and Vivian, and me with Mrs. Hagherty. There were ten children in my family at the time, four that were older than I was and five that were younger. We were on the floor at Mrs. Hagherty’s watching President John F. Kennedy’s motorcar procession go through the streets of Dallas on the television when suddenly the television went blank. I could hear Bill, Mrs. Hagherty’s oldest son, yelling that the president had just been shot. I didn’t understand what was going on. There was a big commotion, and Mrs. Hagherty and her daughters began to cry. I asked them what was wrong, but they would not answer. Because I didn’t understand what was going on, I didn’t ask any more questions. At home one day soon after the assassination, I saw my mother crying and asked her, “Mommy, what’s wrong?” After the president was killed, I frequently saw my mother crying, and I would ask her, “Mommy, why do you cry?”

Without answering me, she would simply look out the window, crying even more. Finally, one day she told me she was crying because the president was dead. But something deep inside me told me she was crying because my father was unfaithful to her. My father had a good job as a residential building contractor. Sometimes, however, when he came home, he would beat my mother when she asked him about other women. I saw this but couldn’t fully understand what was happening, and I felt terribly sorry for my mother. Even though my father was well paid in his job, my mother would often have to get up very early and stand in the surplus food line because we didn’t have enough food for ten people; my father spent the money on other women. Second Street was in a mixed neighborhood, predominately Irish and Polish with a few Chinese families and two Hispanic families: one Puerto Rican family with a little boy named Willie and our family. One of the Chinese boys was named Harry. He was a chubby little kid who was bigger than my brother Mikey (who was a year older than I) and me. On one occasion, Harry tried to bully us. We ran away, but he chased after us. We ran up to my house, and Mikey went inside the house while I stood outside cursing at Harry. When Mikey came back out, he had a fork, and he threw it at Harry. I watched as it spun a few times in the air before it stuck into Harry’s head. He ran home screaming with that fork sticking out of his head.